You've got the tea, time to SPILL.
Share your Red Flag đźš© story with us for the next "M" Word Series Live Event! Â
Submit Your Red Flag Story!
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You can share anonymously, or you can name and shame. We won't judge!
If you do choose to include your email and we choose your story, we'll drop a special gift into your inbox!
You've seen AITA... well, this is better...
Reddit’s got Am I the Asshole? — but let’s be real, those strangers don’t know you, your culture, or what it’s like to be a Muslim woman navigating love, marriage, Islamic rights, the modern dating world, and all the family drama that comes with it.
Enter Am I the Red Flag? đź‘€ đźš©
What is, Am I The Red Flag?
You send us your story — the wild, messy, funny, awkward as hell, or downright insane moment that made you text your friend, "GIRL LISTEN TO THIS" or wonder "omg wait, was it me?"
Malak (financial educator for Muslim women + host of The M Word) and Cody (licensed therapist + life coach for Muslim women) will choose stories to read live — anonymously — and then break it down with honesty, humor, and maybe a little spice.
We’re talking:
🚩First date disasters or awkward set-ups
🚩Talking stages that went up in flames
🚩Situationships that got way too weird
🚩Engagements that crashed and burned
🚩Wedding day disasters you couldn’t make up if you tried
Did they say something insane to you? Was it him or was it family?
If it made you laugh, cry, or listen to T Swift's Reputation on repeat for a week…we want to hear it!
Submit your story below and let’s find out once and for all: was it you, or was it him?
Share your Am I The Red Flag Story!
If you share your email with us and we use your story during the live event, we will send a free gift to your inbox!
Submit Your Red Flag Story!Meet Your Host Malak Kudaimi
& Special Guest Cody Qureshi!

Malak Kudaimi
Malak Kudaimi is a financial educator helping Muslim women make confident choices in money and marriage. Through her courses like Confident Investor, her private podcast, and her live series The M Word, she gives Muslim women the tools and insight to understand their rights, clarify their values, and navigate money and relationships with confidence so they can make the best, informed decisions for themsleves.

Cody Qureshi
Cody Qureshi is that friend who tells you the truth with zero judgment—and backs it up with years of experience as both a coach and a liscensed therapist. She works with Muslim women who feel stuck in life's "supposed to's" blending neuroscience, subconscious rewiring, and Islamic spirituality, she makes the hard questions—about relationships, culture, and identity—feel less heavy, so you can create the reality and life you truly want to live.