We've all seen THAT viral video (yes, the g-wagon one!)

It sparked a million opinions, jokes, debates, and silent questions about Mahr and what's reasonable, what's typical, and what's not.

So I asked Muslim women anonymously all the mahr questions we're dying to have answered...

What?

What was given, how much, and in what form?

Was it a symbolic gift or a five-figure check? Let’s just say… the range was wild.

You’ll see real (anonymous) examples of what Muslim women were given as mahr—and what’s becoming more common than you might expect.

When?

When was it paid—or if it was?

On the wedding day? A year later? Not at all

The timelines revealed in the survey say a lot about how mahr is being handled behind closed doors.

How?

HOW was it decided—and how was it paid?

Was it a mutual decision, a family negotiation, or a quiet agreement behind the scenes?

Some women helped shape their mahr. Others were handed the terms. And when it came time to pay? Let’s just say the methods ranged from heartfelt to... highly creative.

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I'm Malak.

I’m Malak Kudaimi—a financial educator, public speaker, and the creator of Confident Investor, an investing program designed to help Muslim women build wealth that’s halal, intentional, and truly theirs.

My work is rooted in faith, and everything I do is about making money feel less overwhelming and more empowering for our community.

I love talking all things money and marriage for Muslim women, and I’m here to start the conversations we’ve been quietly needing to have for a long time.

Join the conversation!

Click below to watch the replay and get your copy of the survey results PLUS my free Mahr Conversation Guide!

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Honest Conversations about Money, Marriage, & Life As A Muslim Woman.

These are the conversations we don’t always have, but we should. And now, we finally are.

The M Word is a live conversation series hosted by Malak Kudaimi for Muslim women who are ready to talk about money, marriage, and Muslim womanhood with honesty and build the confidence to make informed, values-aligned choices.

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Get access to the live replay and download the results from my anonymous mahr survey! PLUS grab your bonus Mahr Conversation Guide FREE!